Sometimes you need someone to say "you're Ok"

hmmmm nothing is quite as powerful as someone telling you "you're ok, or you're doing the right thing, or you're going to be alright. For full effect it is best that this isn't said by your mom, because even in caveman days caveman mom's were telling caveman son's that they were "OK" even though they were caught looking at caveman drawings of naked Cavewoman and it caused embarrassement to all involved. Then Cave family had to sit down and talk bout how baby Sabertooth babies were born.