I will address getting Stood up.

I am 32 years old. I will only go into my experience into the next subject. Here is where I am at. It seems like you have lots of guys off the table at my age. There are lots of guys who got married, turned out to be gay, or died. So there is this clump of guys who are doomed...or blessed to still be dating. One of them got stood up. It was total bullcrap on the girls part, but when you are an attractive girl and guys want to have sex with you. You can get away with anything. There will still be that next guy to give you whatever you want. Back to my point. If I was to give someone advice to a man who was stood up is I would have the man write a bit. Use it as an chance to understand at a deeper level woman are not the same as men. They don't use logic or play by the same rules. Then I would try to character build. If you can be butthurt on the inside, but not act out in a way that brings your mind, body and soul down...you are on your way to being a better person. I think people sense in me that I am willing to get up from at a table or a situation at anytime because I have been stood up, insulted, dis-respected so many times. From that I generally get respect. So here is an example of what I think happens when you stood up or flaked on if you handle it badly, or if you handle it like an adult male who has his crap together.



7:30 Girl flakes...excuse...I didn't know we were still on? Ok...I child/man would probably insult her..of course through text...because child-like men can't handle real conflict. Direct insults...maybe call her a bitch...bitch to friends...tell people that she is a bitch in an effort to build your self-esteem up...this method gets you through...all the sudden you realize that the girl now can see that you are a crybaby..you start to feel bad about yourself....no improvement as a person is done.

7:30 In a perfect world this is what I would react with...Girl flakes..excuse I didn't know it was on....Cool...maybe some other time....choice A: Reschedule the date....choice B: next her....if you choose choice A: she gets one shot then she is nexted....nor choice B never talk to her again. Don't put her down...think about the fact that you know she has a different set of values than you. Focus on staying busy and moving on the best as you can...don't take the game..or yourself too seriously...use it as a chance to help your buddies. I don't often get in a mind-space where I need some different outlet, but when I do I ususally ask Jason, Byrdman, or friends how they are doing. I can make a list of a million things more important than getting stood up. Time heals the woulds you just have to work through the hurt so you come out as a better person when the hurt is over.