Yesterday was not a great day for my insides, but it did provide me plenty of chance to input my experience. Nothing I like more than to entertain myself with stories of personal development and growth. The first thing that came about is chiefsplanet.com. There is a dating thread. The people on there talk about "Cute" text messages and other little ways of getting girls to interact with them. That is fine. Then though comes the real issue. "Why is this girl flaking on me?" "This girl won't text me or call me back"
"she seems interested but she waffles"
And here we go.
If a girl is interested you will know 100%. The problem with guys sending out cute emails and texts is that they are using that crumb of approval to build their self-esteem to make them feel good, then time passes and they need that crumb of approval again. The real problem is they suck. The girls they are doing this too treat them less than a dog.
They need to build actual value up and then their happiness won't depend on if a girl texts them back. Lets say you have A COLD...you keep on blowing your nose but what you really need is to get some solid rest and hydrate and time to get better. Well texting and doing all this cute things trying to win approval is like blowing your nose. What you really need to do to get a grasp on dating issues is get better at your job, make more money, be better socially, lose weight, or if you are skinny put muscle on, build social skills, and stop being a wuss-bag. When this happens what do you know, you have a life that is good enough without dating. When it is that good...oh look who is texting you saying they miss you? Same girl taking selfies with her dog. Life is hard, growth is hard, but obviously to have a decent life you have to work and pay the price.
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